DEAR DEIDRE: Finding out my husband had entered into a sex act shook me to my core, so I filed for divorce.
Although he denied talking to women, I didn’t; I had the screenshots to prove otherwise.
The deep betrayal: we have been together for 25 years. I am 53 years old and my husband is 56 years old.
First, he blamed me, saying that I had stopped spending time with him after work. But how could he do it when he was tired of having a circle of relatives of six?
He sought me out to forgive him and carry on as if nothing had happened.
I thought I might never feel honest with him again, but his guidance and understanding helped me find the way forward.
You shamelessly encouraged me to do it with my husband and I am grateful that he has now agreed to undergo treatment with me.
While I know rebuilding what we had will take time, it is a step in the right direction.
The resources I’ve been provided, in addition to the How Counseling Can Help packet, have shown me that talking to a professional can really help us.
You comforted me when I felt like I couldn’t move on.
Thank you, Deidre.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I’m so glad I discovered a way forward by combining open communication and therapy.
Good luck.
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